Snail Mail and a Minted Giveaway

Did you see that thing going around on Facebook in the first week of January? A bunch of people were posting that they’d send something by mail to the first 10 of their friends to comment and commit to posting the same in their status. I thought that was cool—an actual something in the mail! My mail is boring – I don’t even get paper bills anymore so it’s mostly just junk mail— so I posted it too.

I’ve done nothing about it yet, not because I forgot but because I want to send something cool and haven’t been able to decide what. A postcard from my city? Lame. A photograph? That would be cool but I don’t even know how to get photos printed anymore (geez). But I figured it out. I’m going to shop Minted – they of the cool cards and art prints and baby announcements. And have you seen Minted wedding invitations? (If they had been around when we got married we probably wouldn’t have been printing our invites at the last minute. Oh, who am I kidding? We totally would have.) [Read more...]

I’m Turning Into Jennifer Aniston

Any Friends fans out there? Did you ever hear that Jennifer Aniston ate the same salad for lunch every day for 10 years? I’m totally turning into her.

(I wish.)

Okay, so I’m not turning into Jennifer Aniston, but I am on a salad kick and I’ve been eating the same one for lunch an awful lot lately. It’s totally simple:

  • Iceberg lettuce (stick with me here – there’s a reason)
  • Half an avocado
  • 1 Roma tomato
  • Snap peas
  • Carrots
  • Cucumber
  • Ham cubes
  • Baby corn
  • Goat cheese
  • Sesame seeds
  • Ranch dressing

It’s not complicated and it’s not meant to be (otherwise there’s no way it would be a habit). I think it’s the avocado that has me addicted. I only started eating avocado in the last few years—I never thought to before because I had never really tried it—but my mom started putting it on salads and now I’m totally hooked.

So the iceberg lettuce thing – the reason I use it is that I’ve found it gets me to eat salad more often. It’s easy, I really like the crunch, and it gives me a nice base for a salad without overwhelming the other stuff. I’ve tried to switch to lettuce that actually has some nutritional value, but then I tend not to eat salad at all, so this is better, right? (That’s a rhetorical question. Please don’t tell me how lame iceberg lettuce is because I really like my lunchtime salad habit.) My veggie intake is way higher this way, and if I make salad to go with dinner I do use other greens, so I figure it’s all good.

My salad isn’t the exact same every day (which is probably why I don’t look like Jennifer Aniston yet) in part because I run out of avocado way too often (Pinterest tells me you can freeze avocados – has anyone tried?) but also because a certain small person who also lives here tends to hog some of the good stuff. (Seriously, that kid can eat a whole can of baby corn in one sitting.) His favourite lunch is ham cubes with carrot sticks, cucumber slices and broccoli florets with a side of ranch dressing (in a separate container please, not on the plate in case it – gasp! – touches the veggies before he’s ready to dip). That makes it really easy to make him lunch while I’m making my own, but the problem is that he eats it so much he totally hogs all the ranch dressing. But hey, he’s four and he’s eating his veggies so this mama’s not going to complain. As long as he doesn’t eat my avocado.

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The Newborn Phase

You know when you find out a friend is pregnant with her first baby? And you want to share everything you know but don’t want to overwhelm her or be the one who tells her to sleep now because she won’t sleep again for years? I had that dilemma recently. I’ve come to the conclusion that there’s no point trying to convey what having a baby is like to someone who hasn’t had one, because you really, truly can’t know what it’s like until you get there.

Luckily in this case, my friend wanted to talk baby stuff — strollers, cribs, nursery decor — instead of sleep or the frequency with which babies poop. And that’s all stuff I can talk about with great enthusiasm.

I have grand ideas about “doing” our house, but I’ve never done it. Not in any really deliberate way. But when it came to putting together baby rooms I was all over it. (And Rich was too.) There’s just something about having a room specially designed for the baby you’re about to welcome. When we did Connor’s room it was a little less deliberate – we had everything we wanted and needed except stuff for the walls, but I bought jungle decals in a panic a couple of weeks before he was born. Because there was NO WAY I could bring my baby home to a room that had nothing on the walls. (Never mind the fact that he slept in our room for the first six weeks.) Coordinating nursery furniture

We had a ton of fun doing Ethan’s room too. We weren’t starting from scratch because, while we got rid of a lot of our baby stuff before we moved, we did keep the crib and changing table/dresser, which are two pieces we really like. And I was also smart enough this time not to buy a whole set including stuff we’ll never use (like crib bumpers).

So that’s what we talked about with my friend. We did a tour of Ethan’s room and talked about the wall decals. We gave our perspective on the changing table/dresser combo compared to the standalone change table option. We whipped out the stroller and talked about why we like ours.

Between that conversation and the recent sort I had to do on Ethan’s clothes (because the little bugger is growing out of stuff – why do they have to grow so fast?!) I’ve been feeling a bit nostalgic for the newborn phase. Especially, it must be said, because when he was a newborn he slept whereas now we’re having an increasing number of visits during the night. But I digress…

I guess that’s the nice thing about having friends who are having babies. As another friend of mine said, I don’t actually want another baby but I do want friends to have babies I can snuggle (and not at 3 am, preferably).

Do you miss the newborn phase?

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A Million Moments of Joy

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Head OVER heels.

OVERtired.

Won me OVER.

OVERachiever.

OVER the moon.

OVER my head.

OVERjoyed.

OVERwhelmed.

These are all things I have felt since becoming a mom. There were times when the OVERwhelmed outweighed the OVERjoyed feelings, and there were definitely times I was OVER it. But one of the things I’ve always tried to do here is talk about ALL the moments – the good, the bad, the ugly-cry moments. I just think it’s important that we talk about how it really is. [Read more...]

Sears Launches Carter’s & OshKosh

The other day a big box arrived at our door. The dog barked, Connor went wild with excitement, and I anxiously watched the monitor to see if the commotion would wake Ethan up. (It didn’t. Love that kid.) Connor always wants to open packages right away (who doesn’t?) but especially this one, because he was convinced it was full of LEGO. A gigantic box full of LEGO. And he was not dissuaded by the fact that it didn’t rattle when we shook it.

I knew it wasn’t LEGO, but I was actually more excited about what was inside. It was full of clothes. And not for me. [Read more...]